Welcome xxlyn

My dear xxlyn, wonderful that you have joined as a contributor because I do hope that we can help to change your opinion here (Readers can check out xxlyn's comments to the post below). I challenge you to a debate on this issue - Many men are 'crapholes' yes but we women allow them to continue to be because we put up with it when they're our man and we encourage it when they aren't!! Come on women are worth more than this - more than being an outside roll in the hay (the horner) or a neglected wife (the horned). Its not just about leaving the man, if there will always be women out there making it easy for men to be useless, sons of b's - My thing is not about excusing men its about calling Sistahs to a higher standard for themselves!