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Thursday, February 24, 2005

Married man drama ...

You know what? Im just tired tired of the boys parading out there pretending to be grown men. Ive created this blog so that we sistahs can vent, learn, love and in the end exhale. Im not about drama.. but sometimes drama is necessary. We cant sit back and allow ourselves to be treated like doormats. Why do we do it sistahs? Why? Are men soo necessary to our existence that we're prepared to share. When the married man starts to sweet talk us - what do we think? Do you feel special and sweet? Cant we see that its our sistah on the other end of the man's behind who is hurting. When we sistahs start to stick together, to think of each other first then no man will be able to hurt any one of us. Isnt that a great concept. Lets think of the sistahs! When I started writing this post I just let my fingers type - didnt know what I was about to say- I just knew that I wanted to connect with other sistahs out there who find that love doesn't really come that easy and even when it comes its no bed of roses. Am I the only one out there who thinks so? But can't we start a movement of enlightenment among ourselves where we join together and love each other and help each other have meaningful relationships. If each of us takes responsibility for our actions then thats one less woman out there to create drama for another sistah. Maybe we could find someway to identify with one another. Some way to start identifying true "sistahs". We need to recruit new "sistahs" every day. Hey hit me with a comment if you feel you have some ideas as to how to start this revolution.

2 Comments:

At 4:04 AM, Blogger Margaret Rose said...

Thank you sarahbabe. Im very new to the blogging thing but this is really cool. Love your blog too. I would love for you to be involved. Im basically posting as I get inspired - it would be great to really have a movement that empowers women to love themselves and each other first, wouldn't it? Looking forward to your ideas.

 
At 11:55 AM, Blogger Wayne World said...

Hey Sistah Soljas! What is going on? I would just like to add my 2 cents by saying that women should NOT, I repeat NOT, get into drama with the other woman!! It is not her fault that your man cannot execise self control. What is getting into it with the other woman going to do? Is it going to make you feel like somehow it was not ALL his fault and therefore you have someone else to take your anger out on?! If a man disrespects you , you are ALWAYS left with two choices. Either you forgive him and move on together , or you forgive him and move on without him!Fighting with the other "her" solves absolutely NOTHING.


I , for one would like to see this Ya YA sisterhood thing take off, but women can't even not be jealous of another woman's shoes, let alone their man!

 

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